pamela brown has more. >> it is one of the disastrous situations i have created. >> arnold schwarzenegger openly and misspent he lied to hyssop -- openly admits that he lied to his wife about his affair and his son. for 10 years, the woman continued to work in the schwarzenegger house. >> it is not worth punishing somebody for being in this situation. >> schwarzenegger reveal the affair to his wife during couples therapy. that led to the breakup of their marriage. here knowledge as it was not his only affair, but he still holds out hope that his marriage will one day be restored. his autobiography also covers his rise to fame, his body building titles and blockbuster movie making before becoming california's governor. his former press secretary says she is not surprised by her former bosses told admissions. >> he likes creating drama. i think it is one of the things he is trying to do to generate sales for the book. it is the nature of who is. he has a penchant for the big the dramatic, and sometimes that is good and sometimes that is less ideal. >> schwarzenegger says maria shriver has n